You’re out with a girl you just met. You’re nervous because she’s gorgeous and you can barely believe that you’ve got this shot to get to know her…to connect with her
Getting Her World 2 Authentic Man Program
ABOUT GETTING HER WORLD II The Getting Her World Program is composed of seven programs:
Discover the Keys to Unforgettable Conversation
and Profound Connection…and Say Goodbye to Brain Freeze, Flaking, and Boring Interactions…
CHALLENGE #1: “What Do I Say To Her?”
You’re out with a girl you just met. You’re nervous because she’s gorgeous and you can barely believe that you’ve got this shot to get to know her…to connect with her…to make an impression on her.
Maybe you’ve rehearsed what you’re going to say or what you’re going to ask. Maybe you just figured you’d “wing it.” But as her eyes lock with yours, you feel a burning in your gut.
Your mind goes completely blank. You can’t think of a single clever or witty thing to say. You make small talk to buy yourself some time. The conversation stalls. There’s an awkward silence.
You can feel her interest waning with each passing minute. She checks her watch, maybe her cell phone, and gives you that polite smile that tells you she’ll be nice for the rest of the date but you’re not going to see this one again.
I’ve been there before…more than once.
In those moments, I would just push on with the small talk, but what I REALLY wanted to do was take a SLEDGEHAMMER to that invisible fucking POLITE AND CORDIAL WALL between me and her, and SMASH IT TO PIECES…
Because I KNEW that an amazing connection was so CLOSE, RIGHT THERE ON THE OTHER SIDE, that there was actually a DOORWAY to a place of REAL DEPTH AND RICHNESS OF CONNECTION… but I just couldn’t quite find the edges of the doorway to open it! And so we BOTH remain stuck in this maddeningly superficial world of cordial, mind-numbing small-talk…
And…
What makes it worse is that you KNOW you’re a great guy, with a lot to offer! With your friends, or other women you’re not attracted to, the doorway to your sense of humor, charisma and creativity opens automatically, like magic…
It’s just that now, when it matters to you most and it really COUNTS, it’s not showing up. WTF??
Are you destined to repeat this torturous encounter for the rest of your life …OR is it possible that your attention simply hasn’t been TRAINED to focus on what matters most? More on that in a moment.
CHALLENGE #2: She Flaked. Again. [Unreturned calls, texts, cancelled dates]
You’re excited because you’ve met an amazing woman. But that excitement turns to frustration and disappointment when days go by after you text her with no response.
Should you text her again? Should you wait longer? Should you call instead? What if you stick yourself out there only to have her reject you WORSE?
Is she really busy, or not feeling well or somehow missed the email, text or voice mail? Or is she just not interested in you and afraid to admit it?
And furthermore, why is it such a power imbalance? Why are YOU the one bending over backwards, agonizing over when or whether to text her next, and willing to move YOUR schedule around, when she’s not making time or space to see you??
With each failed connection, you begin to get more and more jaded, and it seems to actually be getting harder, instead of easier, over time. And you’re not sure what to do to fix it.
THE PROBLEM IS THAT WE’RE STUCK IN OUR OWN WORLD
The problem in both the above challenges is simple. You get so wrapped up in your own thoughts that you aren’t actually getting what she’s thinking and feeling, and what she needs in order to feel genuine attraction and connection.
You’re worried about what to say. You’re frustrated by your inability to relate to her. You’re scrambling for anecdotes and the right questions to ask so you can get to know her and make a good impression.
And all the while she’s sitting there thinking, “This guy is stuck in his own world – he’s not really getting me at all. I’m not feeling it. Why did I ever agree to this date?”
Painful.
NO CONNECTION, NO SECOND DATE
If women are not following up with you, it’s likely that she didn’t feel a strong connection.
Even if she was attracted to you at some point, attraction is fleeting– but a REAL CONNECTION is memorable. And if it’s not there, she’s not going to make the effort to take things further, and she’ll let your calls and texts fade to the background. But when you learn how to connect and Get Her World, this problem evaporates – and she’ll likely be the one asking you, “When can we meet again?”
As for that first challenge, “What do I say to her?”…
GETTING HER WORLD IS THE GATEWAY TO AMAZING CONVERSATIONS
What if you knew exactly what to say to her, no matter where the conversation was heading?
What if you could effortlessly tap into endless possibilities of topics and intimacy-building questions that would not only intrigue her, but would have her feeling so seen, heard and understood, you’d have her full attention and interest, and therefore end “go-nowhere” dates for good?
When you learn to Get Her World, a simple shift of your attention lets you Dial Into Her. It reveals multiple fun, exciting threads of conversation for you to follow, at ANY point in your interaction – and you’ll never be at a loss for words again.
Once you start to shift your attention and cultivate your focus in the way I’m describing, you’ll have access to the “universal buffet table” of relevant, refreshing and intriguing conversation topics that apply directly to you and her, right in that moment. Read on…
GETTING HER WORLD IS “THE GREAT EQUALIZER”
When you learn to get her world, YOU suddenly have an ability of such immense value-one that so few men have-that the power dynamic changes.
When a woman is ACTUALLY UPLIFTED by spending time with you — nourished, because her life is RICHER for having known you – then she’ll return your calls & texts, and even rearrange her schedule to be with you.
Sandra, the “Iron Curtain” Russian model
Zelose – The playful, regal African woman (and the only one to make Decker cry)
Jasmine – The gorgeous, smart and amazing retired runway model
Carrie – the LA actress who completely stumps Decker
Kara – the Object-Oriented Bondage Coffee Shop Model
Paul – AMP’s video producer, good friend, generous man
Sean – In this one Decker models how to “get in there” with your guy friends
Authentic Man Program – How To Get Her World 2 Content :
1.Getting Her World 2 – Sandra [ 21 flv, 22 pdf ]
2.Getting Her World 2 – Zelose [ 12 flv, 13 pdf ]
3.Getting Her World 2 – Jasmine [ 33 flv, 34 pdf ]
4.Getting Her World 2 – Carrie [ 16 flv, 17 pdf ]
5.Getting Her World 2 – Kara [ 28 flv, 29 pdf ]
6.Getting Her World 2 – Paul [ 11 flv, 12 pdf ]
7.Getting Her World 2 – Sean [ 14 flv, 15 pdf ]
8.Getting Her World 2 – Bonus [ 2 flv, 27 mp3, 3 pdf ]