Shelly Lefkoe – Empowering the Next Generation

Over the course of your 7 modules with Shelly, you will:

• Understand how your behaviors teach specific beliefs.
• Learn how to convert win/lose interactions into a win for both you and the child.
• Develop the most important skill a child must have when you send them out into the world (if they can do just this one thing, you can sleep soundly at night).
• Practice effective ways to deprogram your own beliefs and past experiences that subconsciously affect your parenting.
• Discover the five most damaging beliefs and how they sabotage a person in adult life (as well as how to avoid them).
• Identify negative beliefs in yourself and nip them in the bud before you transmit them to a next generation.
• Teach your child to respect your needs and those of others in a way that makes them feel important and valued.
• Learn about the one thing that can sabotage all your efforts, no matter how positive and conscious a parent you are.
• See the power of 2 key questions that let you know whether you are parenting effectively for the long term or getting an immediate solution while debilitating your child’s future success and happiness.
• Learn new ways to reduce or eliminate stress from your parenting.
• Identify what type of parenting leads to long term success and happiness.
• Harness a method for identifying and shifting negative beliefs that are in the way of your own parenting.

As a parent, you tend to get caught up in the day to day minutia and may forget what your dreams for your children are. If we told you that your job is being responsible for the physical, spiritual, intellectual, emotional development of a child would you say “easy peasy?”

We lose sight of how what we say and do impacts our children. We don’t realize how our actions today affect the rest of their lives. Beliefs form at a young age and they’re rarely outgrown. It is far easier to instill strong positive beliefs early on than to reverse negative beliefs as an adult. In this module, we’ll explore the single most important thing you need to know as a parent and how knowing this one thing can make or break your child’s future success and happiness.

During this session you’ll:

• Discover what you really want for your children (and it may not be what you think you want)!
• Uncover the single most important thing that is stopping your children from having happy, successful lives.
• Learn the keys to raising a child that is happy and conscious who will make a difference in the world.
• Understand how beliefs (what your child believes to be true about himself, life and people) will keep your child from moving forward and having a quality of life – not just self-esteem or confidence are the main predictors of future success.
• Learn which beliefs will empower your child, how beliefs can help or hurt your child.
• Discover the 10 worst things you can do to a child – these are the things that many parents do unknowingly that create the worst of the worst beliefs.

Damaging beliefs keep a person from living their fullest, best life. In this module we’ll talk about the 5 most harmful and common beliefs that people develop (even people you may think are successful) and how you as a parent can prevent their formation in your children. We will also look at the positive side of beliefs, the beliefs that help people excel in life, live out their dreams and be happy, positive contributors to society.

In this session, you’ll:

• Uncover how beliefs determine a person’s reality, shape their actions and behaviors and determine the choices they make and what they attract into their lives.
• Discover the 5 most damaging beliefs and how they sabotage a person in adult life.
• Learn why almost all problems in school, issues with friends, depression and underperformance are tied to a child’s beliefs.
• Learn the techniques to ensure that your child grows up with healthy beliefs. For example, “I am capable” and “I make a difference” will allow them to make a positive impact in the world.
• Discover the 2 Key Questions every parent must ask themselves before they speak or react to their child.
• How teaching children “the right answers” stops them from learning.

Often as parents we want our children to be or react in a certain way that is not possible with their current stage of development. In other words, often our children actually cannot think the way we want them to or expect them to because their brain is not wired that way yet. At each stage of development children are forming beliefs about themselves. If you have unrealistic expectations about what they should be able to do – and they are physically or emotionally not developed enough yet to perform – your unrealistic expectations can do major damage to their developing self-esteem and confidence. Children will start to believe that something is wrong with them because they can’t be or do something you are expecting them to do.

In this session you’ll learn:

• About the stages of development and what you can realistically expect from your child in each phase.
• Why thinking teenagers are already adults and expecting them to act and behave like adults leads to the development of one of the most dangerous beliefs.
• How you can help children become world-centric adults.
• A harmful belief that 90% of children develop that causes resentment and robs them of their free will.

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In this module, you will learn how stopping your stress leads to better parenting. No matter how committed we are to being parents who help our children form positive beliefs, when we are undergoing significant stress we are more likely to get annoyed, get upset, get angry and just plain blow our tops. The same behavior from our children can be laughed off if we’re in a good mood or lead to losing our temper and yelling if we are experiencing extreme stress. So anything that will significantly reduce your stress will improve your relationship with your children.

As you discovered in the previous module, if your expectations are more consistent with what your child is capable of doing, you will significantly improve your interactions with your children and reduce your stress.But there is something else you can do to reduce your stress even more. Down to virtually none.

In this session you’ll discover:

• How events have no inherent meaning and can’t cause feelings.
• How almost all feelings come from the meaning you give events.
• If you stop giving meaning to meaningless events, you can stop your negative feelings.
• Stress is the result of negative feelings – no negative feelings, no stress.
• How to distinguish meaning from events so you can realize that you added the meaning.
• How to dissolve meaning.

In this module you’ll learn how to help your children be free to express themselves.

And, that even with all our uncertainty, how we as parents can still ensure that our children grow up with a sense of freedom, joy, resilience, fearlessness and innovation.

In this session you’ll discover:

• How beliefs you form keep you from having freedom in your life (hint: it has to do with being at the effect of life instead of being the driver of your life!).
• The real definition of self-esteem – what creates it and the link between self-esteem and beliefs.
• What one word you should remove from your vocabulary – and with what word to replace it.
• How self-esteem comes from the self and not from others.
• How to facilitate an “I Can” environment and why it is the most powerful tool in your parenting toolbox.
• Why resilience is so important and how to instill it in your child.
• How you and your child can experience freedom.
• Modeling being in the present moment.

People with a strong value system who know what they stand for have it easier in life than those who are ambiguous or have not clearly defined their value system. When your values are clear, your journey is more fulfilling. The context in which you parent and live your life affects everything. Most people – even the most well-intentioned people – parent arbitrarily and it has devastating effects on our children.

You will learn:

• Why everyone is living should lives and how to make the change to a Value-Generated life. When you know what your values are, decisions are easy.
• How to make sure your child knows who they are and knows their own personal value system.
• How to build your family around the premise that each person contributes to the whole and why each individual is better for it.
• Why creating a clearly outlined “Family Context” should be at the top of your list.
• The importance of teaching kids about sufficiency – they are enough, they have enough.
• How to escape the trap of entitlement – how to teach your kids to produce satisfaction and ask how much is enough?
• How to turn complaints into requests.
• The importance of apologizing and remaking commitments.
• The power and importance of creating and nurturing relationships.
• The importance of integrity and how to model it.
• The three myths of scarcity and how getting rid of them empowers children.

Secret Module: We can’t tell you this one until we finish the first six modules!

In this lively conversation with the beloved author of one of America’s most iconic books, you will learn all about what it takes to create successful relationships. John talks about the importance of having your children observe loving relationships and how giving your children a role model for loving relationships is one of the greatest gift you can give your children. You’ll discover how to have a healthy, vibrant relationship with your partner and others. The truth is, when you’re talking to John Gray you never know what you’ll get but we promise it will be valuable. John is funny, warm, and well versed in many areas including the health and well being of yourself and your child.

John Gray is the leading relationship expert in the world. His relationship and health books have sold over 50 million copies in 50 different languages. His ground-breaking book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, is the bestselling non-fiction book of all time. It launched his Mars Venus book series that forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance. His many books, videos, workshops and seminars provide practical insights to effectively manage stress and improve relationships at all stages of life and love.

So many of us have given up on our dreams or are not even in touch with what they are. Shelly and Marcia are two women who know how to dream. In this dialogue Marcia will talk about the importance of having dreams, how to get in touch with your dreams, how to fulfill your dreams and how to encourage your children to dream. Marcia talks about the importance of taking action and how best to get into action. Can you imagine living your dream life? It’s time to start!

Marcia Wieder is the founder and CEO of Dream University, a network of over 1000 certified “Dream Coaches” dedicated to providing resources and support for anyone looking to turn their dreams into reality. A gifted motivational speaker, Make-A-Wish Foundation board member and former president of the National Association of Women Business Owners, Marcia has also launched the Million Dreams Campaign, with a commitment to help one million dreams come true. She is an accomplished, bestselling author of 14 books dedicated to achieving your dreams. Marcia is a seasoned expert having appeared on Oprah (twice!), The Today Show, featured in her own PBS show, in Woman’s World and several other local and national broadcast, print and online outlets. She is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, and works closely with other internationally esteemed thought leaders.

In this deeply inspiring conversation Cynthia will be take you on a journey to discover how one person can and did make a difference. Cynthia’s passion manifested in a way that demonstrates how each of us can solve the world’s most seemingly impossible challenges through simple individual actions. You will learn what it takes to empower yourself and your children to realize your dreams and become Unstoppable. Cynthia’s Unstoppable Foundation came out of her passion to give kids an education who would have never had access to them.

Cynthia Kersey is a leading performance and productivity expert, the best-selling author of Unstoppable and Unstoppable Women, a speaker, entrepreneur, national columnist and humanitarian. Cynthia has spent more than a decade coaching numerous Fortune 500 companies’ sales teams, employees and reps to achieve optimal performance. Cynthia embodies her message and has integrated giving and contribution in her business for over a decade. She’s the Chief Humanitarian Officer of her non-profit foundation and her passion is that every child receives access to the life-long gift of an education.

Here’s What You’ll Receive

An Unprecedented Opportunity to Join The Empowering the Next Generation Virtual Training

We, at The Shift Network, feel deeply honored that Shelly Lefkoe has chosen to partner with us on this exclusive online training. As you may know, this is a rare opportunity to learn directly from a renowned parenting expert whose powerful insights and pioneering work are helping us heal and awaken ourselves, our children – and our world.

Through this powerful online format, you’ll not only save time and money on workshop costs (plus travel, accommodations and meals – which would cost thousands of dollars). But you’ll be able to benefit from Shelly and his guests’ incredible teachings and exercises from the comfort of your home – at your own pace!

If you are serious about transforming your parenting skills and identifying what type of parenting leads to long-term success and happiness, then you owe it to yourself, your children – and our world – to take this one-of-a-kind training.

If you’re ready to take the next step in evolving yourself, click the register button below to reserve your space now.

About Shelly Lefkoe…

Shelly Lefkoe is a much sought after parenting expert. Her passion is inspiring and empowering people to be the best possible parents that they can be, so that their children can have joyful, successful lives both as children and adults.

Shelly’s parenting expertise comes from helping thousands of individuals overcome a wide variety of problems as serious as depression to low self-esteem that were rooted in early childhood interactions with parents. Her work as a Lefkoe Method Facilitator has been her laboratory for developing her parenting work.

Shelly discovered that virtually all of the problem behaviors her clients wanted to change were driven by beliefs they had formed, mostly in childhood, through interactions with their parents. Seeing how beliefs formed in childhood create problems in adult life ignited Shelly’s passion to change how people parent. Shelly Lefkoe is also the co-author of Chicken Soup for the Soul Guide to Effective Parenting.